Feb 2008
These boots were made for stomping
02/27/08 00:01 Filed in: Family &
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One year ago today
02/25/08 05:21 Filed in: Family &
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How many hours are there in the day again?
02/25/08 00:06 Filed in: Medical
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I've been a bit slow about posting lately - it's sort
of chaotic right now. I've mostly just been posting
photos of the boys (mainly because I know my
mom checks the site every day). J is finishing
his last (full) week of call as a fellow (thank
goodness), and I am cramming for boards. I do realize
that all I need to do is pass, but when you've only
got a few hours each night to study (and realize that
you are exhausted during those hours), it can be a
challenge, especially if you're like me, and hate
walking into stuff feeling unprepared. Studying on
Sunday nights is particularly difficult after an
active weekend with the kids.
J and I were chatting about this whole med school with children thing. It's definitely tiring. We came up with the analogy that it's like having (at least) two full-time jobs. And then add on clerkships and boards, and it's like having (at least) three full-time jobs. Studying is the most flexible in terms of schedule, so it has to wait until the end of the day, but I often find it hard to concentrate when I've just spent an early morning with the kids, a whole day at school, an evening with the family. The thing that requires the most focused brain effort gets the last few ounces of energy left. It brings me back to the days when I was applying to medical school and had one full-time job and three part-time jobs while I was studying for the MCAT (my least favorite exam of all time). I still think that was much worse, because getting into medical school is such a crazy process. Compared to that time, I'm kind of coasting now (as long as I don't royally screw up in the next few months).
J and I were chatting about this whole med school with children thing. It's definitely tiring. We came up with the analogy that it's like having (at least) two full-time jobs. And then add on clerkships and boards, and it's like having (at least) three full-time jobs. Studying is the most flexible in terms of schedule, so it has to wait until the end of the day, but I often find it hard to concentrate when I've just spent an early morning with the kids, a whole day at school, an evening with the family. The thing that requires the most focused brain effort gets the last few ounces of energy left. It brings me back to the days when I was applying to medical school and had one full-time job and three part-time jobs while I was studying for the MCAT (my least favorite exam of all time). I still think that was much worse, because getting into medical school is such a crazy process. Compared to that time, I'm kind of coasting now (as long as I don't royally screw up in the next few months).
One of my favorite things in the whole world
02/24/08 22:10 Filed in: Family &
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...is when one of the boys falls asleep in my lap.
Tonight, we were watching the beginning of
Cars (a really cute movie),
and I was gently rubbing A's back while he sat
in my lap. Next thing I knew, he was leaning on
my arm, and then a minute later, he had fallen
asleep. J offered to take him to his crib (it
was pretty close to bedtime) but I decided to
hang onto him for just a little longer.
Sigh. It's so peaceful when a baby is
sleeping.
Little does he know how many kisses I planted on
him before I lay him down in his crib.
Up to 20% off Britax at Amazon.com
02/24/08 06:35 Filed in: Shopping &
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We have Britax Decathlons for both boys (fortunately we scored excellent deals on these), and really like them. If you have older models, don't forget to check out their recall (which is hardly a recall, since they just send you these tiny plastic rivets to stick in the bottom of the seat). They are very well-made car seats, and I always feel safe buckling them in. The boys also find them to be very comfortable. The only potential downside is that they are rather large and heavy if you need to move them around a lot. Fortunately, we hardly have to. And since they can be used for kids up to 65 pounds, we'll be able to use them for quite some time.
The sale lasts through March 2, 2008.
Through a child's eyes
02/21/08 08:48 Filed in: Family &
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"Tao, tao, tao"
02/18/08 22:53 Filed in: Family &
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These towels have worked out quite nicely for us, since we have tons of them washed and ready for use. I just picked up our second batch at Costco today (The package is slightly different from when I first reviewed them - I think there are 60 or 70 of them for $14 now). They're quite handy for blotting drool, and he's not particular about them, which means he can be soothed with pretty much any washcloth-like piece of fabric.
The daycare teachers think they are really convenient, and have started recommending them to other parents, because it makes it a lot easier to not have to buy multiple special blankets or toys (that can often be misplaced or need frequent washing). We don't ever worry about losing them, or forgetting them somewhere. Also, whenever the towel gets too damp or dirty, we just toss it in the hamper and grab another one. And when they get really old, they are reassigned to the cleaning supplies. I also leave a few old ones in the car for wiping damp slides at the park in the early mornings. They are really handy. Not at all stylish or cutesy, but A certainly doesn't seem to mind, and neither do I. He knows where the stack is to get new ones, and sometimes he likes to have two of them. What a funny boy.
Random Medical Fact #38: Leriche syndrome
02/17/08 21:16 Filed in: Medical
Classic triad of bilateral claudication in the hips,
thighs and buttocks, symmetric atrophy of the lower
extremities, and impotence in men. Suggestive of
aortoiliac occlusion (leading to ischemia). Patients
will have decreased peripheral pulses as well, and
most will need an aortoiliac bypass graft.
A rides the Big Bobby car
02/16/08 06:51 Filed in: Family &
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Sorry I've been slow to post photos (we have a huge
card to download onto the computer). But here's one
of A from a few weeks ago. He's definitely big enough
to ride this now, and loves
it, as you can see.
Diapers.com discontinuing their rewards program
02/15/08 17:08 Filed in: Shopping &
Bargains
A while ago, I posted about how Diapers.com was our new
source for diapers. It turns
out that effective today, they are discontinuing
their rewards program (I was about to reorder
today). Bummer. Without that discount, their
prices are slightly higher than Amazon and they don't ship as
quickly. Not to mention, you need to spend more
for free shipping, so I'd order two boxes at a
time. Oh well, it was good while it lasted.
What I'm doing right now
02/14/08 06:10 Filed in: Family &
Friends | Medical
Just finished sealing up M's Thomas Train Valentine's
Day cards for his classmates (we decorated them over
the weekend), did a few USMLE Step 2 CK questions
(hard on the ego, I tell you) and now it's time to
make lunches. Leftover pasta, crackers, cheese,
raisins, and yogurt. And milk.
Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I'll post a photo soon - it's pajama day, woohoo!
Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I'll post a photo soon - it's pajama day, woohoo!
Save $15 off $49 on Nivea, Aquaphor, Eucerin and more at Amazon
02/13/08 12:38 Filed in: Shopping &
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I usually have these on a subscription from Amazon to save 15% off their regular low prices. However, this is a better deal, since on a $50 order, it's like saving 30%. And Aquaphor (click for a review) is a staple in our house, so I'm definitely taking advantage of this promotion. I'll just skip this month's shipment, which is easy to do.
I know some people think it's horrendously overpriced (it is) and is the same as Vaseline (it's not, but they are similar). We have tried both and find that Aquaphor is better. Both boys have fairly sensitive skin and eczema (M is growing out of his but A has a fair number of itchy days). When we recently had to go to the allergist to see if it was food-related, the doctor told us that Aquaphor provides additional hydration as well as a barrier to moisture loss, while Vaseline just provides the barrier. I don't know if this is actually scientifically proven, but in our own trials of usage, it works better.
Whether or not it's worth the price difference, we'll that's probably up to each person to decide. It's not a small difference either. But we think it is worth it, and budget for it accordingly (who really needs a flat panel television anyhow? My ten-year-old 25-inch model is still chugging along). When we need to use a lot or expect to have to reapply often, we use Vaseline on top of a lighter layer of Aquaphor. But for the most part, we prefer to use Aquaphor.
Three years ago today
02/13/08 11:24 Filed in: Family &
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4.5 wonderful hours of my day
02/12/08 02:29 Filed in: Medical
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J has a lot of call this month, plus he has to work
every Saturday, so the boys and I have lots of time
alone together. Of course this means I am pretty
exhausted at the end of the evening, which is why I
fall asleep after their bedtime at 8:30pm (big thanks
to J who has been doing dinner clean-up duty alone
when I crash) and then get up really early to read
and do work (like now).
As a general rule, when we are with the kids, all of our energy and attention is devoted to them. That makes it pretty hard to get anything else done (so we don't do any chores until after they go to bed). The exceptions are when I am preparing snacks or meals for them, when I put A in the playpen (which he will tolerate for maybe 10 minutes, depending on what toys I put in there with him) and have M play or read independently. Occasionally, he'll play with A through the playpen mesh (peekaboo and other hiding games) which is really cute (and great for me).
People often ask me if I think we spend enough time with the kids, and that is a big worry of mine with residency coming up. If I end up seeing the kids as much as I do now, I'd be thrilled. It'll probably turn out to be less, but I'm currently trying to devise ways to maximize the amount of time I will get to see them. In medical school, it varies based on which rotation I am on (I'm currently on radiology right now, which is pretty light). Hopefully I'll still be able to spend lots of quality time with the boys even when I am a resident.
Currently, I spend about 1.5 hours with them in the morning before dropping them off at daycare, and then about three hours with them afterwards before they go to sleep. And all their waking hours on the weekends. I know there are lots of opinions out there about that being too few or even too many hours (being a parent means opening yourself up to a whole new host of unwanted judgement by other people, something I am not thrilled about). But it works for us, for now, and we'll adjust accordingly as our schedules and their needs change.
They clearly know we are their parents, and prefer being with us over being anywhere else, so i am feeling encouraged that we can develop a healthy, nurturing relationship with our kids. It certainly helps that they love going to "school." In fact, after spending two days at home with me when he was sick last week, A seemed bored at times. And while I was feeling conservative about bringing him back to daycare because I worried he might not feel up to it, I asked him if he wanted to go to school. Ee-yah he said. He's still a little hesitant at drop-off time but when I peek in the room after a few minutes, he's off playing with his little friends, usually digging holes in the sand.
Of course, ask me again in a few weeks when I do a critical care rotation with longer hours, and I'll probably half-jokingly tell you I want to quit med school.
As a general rule, when we are with the kids, all of our energy and attention is devoted to them. That makes it pretty hard to get anything else done (so we don't do any chores until after they go to bed). The exceptions are when I am preparing snacks or meals for them, when I put A in the playpen (which he will tolerate for maybe 10 minutes, depending on what toys I put in there with him) and have M play or read independently. Occasionally, he'll play with A through the playpen mesh (peekaboo and other hiding games) which is really cute (and great for me).
People often ask me if I think we spend enough time with the kids, and that is a big worry of mine with residency coming up. If I end up seeing the kids as much as I do now, I'd be thrilled. It'll probably turn out to be less, but I'm currently trying to devise ways to maximize the amount of time I will get to see them. In medical school, it varies based on which rotation I am on (I'm currently on radiology right now, which is pretty light). Hopefully I'll still be able to spend lots of quality time with the boys even when I am a resident.
Currently, I spend about 1.5 hours with them in the morning before dropping them off at daycare, and then about three hours with them afterwards before they go to sleep. And all their waking hours on the weekends. I know there are lots of opinions out there about that being too few or even too many hours (being a parent means opening yourself up to a whole new host of unwanted judgement by other people, something I am not thrilled about). But it works for us, for now, and we'll adjust accordingly as our schedules and their needs change.
They clearly know we are their parents, and prefer being with us over being anywhere else, so i am feeling encouraged that we can develop a healthy, nurturing relationship with our kids. It certainly helps that they love going to "school." In fact, after spending two days at home with me when he was sick last week, A seemed bored at times. And while I was feeling conservative about bringing him back to daycare because I worried he might not feel up to it, I asked him if he wanted to go to school. Ee-yah he said. He's still a little hesitant at drop-off time but when I peek in the room after a few minutes, he's off playing with his little friends, usually digging holes in the sand.
Of course, ask me again in a few weeks when I do a critical care rotation with longer hours, and I'll probably half-jokingly tell you I want to quit med school.
Random Medical Fact #37: Pickwickian syndrome
02/09/08 15:00
Also known as obesity hypoventilation syndrome (OHS),
this is defined to be alveolar hypoventilation while
awake (resulting in hypoxemia and metabolic
imbalance) in extremely obese patients. Other
symptoms include hypersomnolence, dyspnea and
pulmonary edema (from pulmonary hypertension).
Patients often have obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) as
well, which contributes to the symptoms.
"Pickwickian" refers to a Charles Dickens character (from the book The Posthumous Papers of the Pickwick Club). The symptoms resembled those of a character, Joe, in the book (commonly known as the Pickwick Papers).
Treatment includes noninvasive positive pressure therapy (for both OHS and OSA).
"Pickwickian" refers to a Charles Dickens character (from the book The Posthumous Papers of the Pickwick Club). The symptoms resembled those of a character, Joe, in the book (commonly known as the Pickwick Papers).
Treatment includes noninvasive positive pressure therapy (for both OHS and OSA).
Medical school is challenging, but...
02/09/08 01:11 Filed in: Medical
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Happy Chinese New Year!
02/07/08 05:11 Filed in: Family &
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Watching capybaras at the zoo
02/06/08 00:36 Filed in: Family &
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$10 off Horizon Milk at Amazon
02/05/08 15:07 Filed in: Family &
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Save $10 instantly when you any Horizon Milk products featured on this page. Use the code MILKMIL5 at checkout. Offer ends February 29, 2008.
Two years ago today
02/05/08 13:28 Filed in: Family &
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"ee-yah"
02/04/08 00:41 Filed in: Family &
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A has been saying ee-yah (yeah) to almost every question I've asked him lately, whether or not he really means it (particularly ones that start with A, do you want...?). He is starting to catch on though and occasionally will shake his head no instead. On this particular occasion, M said A, do you want some crackers? And before he could finish, A said ee-yah. And of course, M giggled (we all did).
New inverse rule
02/04/08 00:37 Filed in: Family &
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Aveeno sale at Amazon.com
02/04/08 00:14 Filed in: Shopping &
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Save an additional 20% when you purchase two or more select Aveeno products offered by Amazon.com. Enter code Feb8Aven at checkout. Valid through February 29, 2008.
One year ago today
02/03/08 01:03 Filed in: Family &
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What child's toy stash would be complete without the
obligatory doctor kit? No, it's not because we're in
medicine either. No matter how hard you might try to
not influence their career choices at this early age,
you will acquire one of these kits at some point.
Besides, it's a really fun role-playing activity.
Having a Maisy book helps too (please
bring Maisy back to Noggin! It's one of the few
children's shows we watch).


A loves airplanes
02/01/08 12:13 Filed in: Family &
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A loves pointing at all the airplanes in the sky. He
can spot them from pretty far away when they are just
a tiny speck in the sky. He even points at them
through the window during dinner. He's also started
to add engine sound effects in addition to pointing
at them. He says jjjjjjjjjjjjuuuuu and
sometimes even holds his arms out to his sides and
bends from side to side.


Tips for pumping on the wards
02/01/08 12:11 Filed in: Medical